Social Icons

Monday, July 29, 2013

The Nibble Theory

“Our relationship of all kind are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze lightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers.
You may hold onto some of it but most of it will be spilled.
A relationship is like that.
Held loosely with respect and freedom for the other person, it is like to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively and the relationship slips away and is lost”
                                                                      Kaleel Jamison
I am neither a scholar nor an adept who is significantly qualified to generate issues on such social theories. Yet, within the scope of my own telescopic understanding, I love brushing my feelings on the walls of such focus.
Relations are often taken for granted. Many of us like being loved and cared yet, we fail to realize that we are loved and cared only when we do the same to others. Basically, we heard of Confucius, a Chinese thinker who was never mistaken to say, “Do unto others as you wish to be done unto you” but we often overlook.
In a working organization, relation keeping is like an art. It is one skill that is predominantly imperative. I always learnt that good relations bloom when ‘WE’ is more concerned than ‘I’. However, as an unenlightened social creature, when working in groups, it takes a natural turn that whenever we fail achieving a purpose we accuse others as a cause. There stands a point of ‘WE and I’ interference that is absolutely detrimental in the health of a good relation.
A fine relation is a voyage in the same ship. Either safely landing at the other shore or losing lives due to wreckage is a common question that we have to face together. If one drowns, there’s no question that other will float.  
Preparing to drown or reach the other shore all together

Preparations are intimately readied in union to achieve a common end. Failing and success isn’t a thing of concern but working together is.
It is noteworthy to remember the following note but source is still unknown. In a good relationship, we need to have:
1.    Faith:
2.    Trust and
3.    Hope
Once all the decided to pray for rain, on the day of prayer all people agreed and one boy came with an umbrella. That’s faith.
Example of the feeling of a one year old baby. When you throw him in the air, he laughs because he knows you will catch him. That’s trust.
Every night we go to bed, we have no assurance to wake up alive the next morning but still we set an alarm for tomorrow. That’s hope.

Saturday, July 27, 2013

The Royal Happyness

These days I only wish for an extra oomph that can tug the cruel hands of the clock running. Never before have I seen time fleeting in a typhonic speed as I do today. And traveling in a ship of bewilderment at this velocity is truly inexpressible.
It has been almost a week that I am being freed from the teaching yoke. Time is very limited for me to be at home because a week later, I would dress in as a Post Graduate student in Mahidol University. 
Seriously, no humour makes me laugh. My favourite programme Just for Laugh Gags gravely failed to stretch the weakest tendon of my chin to smile. On the contrary, the WWE, which once was my source of amusement, is ridiculously annoying. I am not bothered who takes the WWE Champion belt, John Cena or Ryback, Sheamus or Ziglar or Randy or Mark Henry.
There’s a long list in the menu to complete before I leave for studies. But, my fingers aren’t prepared to kick off anything. They featured a toddler whose muscles are weak in strength to handle their own weight. So basically nothing interests me at this moment. 
My chum, Mr. Tashi Dorji from Paro
But today, my friend Mr.Tashi Dorji gave life to this living dead man. He has mailed the snap taken with His Majesty the King and the Gyaltsuen during their visit to attend the flood victims of Wokuna, 5km drive from our school.  
With His Majesty the King and the Gyaltsuen during the royal patronage to attend recent flood victims at Wokuna
The mere glance emitted a Royal happyness that I was brought to a life again. It resonated in me a sense of perfect trust and care from the guardian of our small kingdom. This togetherness still lingers in a big space of my little heart, totally etched and frescoed to last till eternity. Though momentary it is, its shortness gives the furthest beam of happiness; the happyness of the kind that blunts the sharpness of melancholy, depression and severance.


Feelings (87) Truth (71) Values (68) Experience (62) Education (56) Life (46) Human (32) Social (29) Teaching (27) Bhutan (21) Respect (21) Country (19) Love (16) Happiness (13) Friends (12) Thailand (12) Culture (11) Family (10) Fate (8) Interest (8) King (8) Leadership (8) Dream (7) Poetry (7) Politics (7) Religion (7) Democracy (6) Failure (6) National (6) Festivity (5) Excuses (4) Frustration (4) blogging (4) Facebook (3) Research (3) Examination (2) music (2) Corruption (1) Driving (1) Money (1)
Blogger Templates