A few days back, I had a phone call from my niece who could not meet the requirements for grade XI admission. I knew she was in a dire rummage for financial rescue to put up herself in any private school in the capital city.
We began our tête-à -tête privately to figure out her subject of interest first. Having demonstrated herself moderately better in Dzongkha, at the rear end of our conversation, I expected a swift conclusion of her choice of a stream that consigns Dzongkha the utmost priority. But when she averred her interest in science, I was completely gobbled up by the madness of speculations.
Undoubtedly,
this is one of the most bizarre scholastic maladies that many of our students who
qualify after grade X suffer from. Almost
majority think and declare their stand of opting science stream just because they
succeeded to cross the bar of the criterion to have 35% science aggregate. While
many are driven by societal influence, family expectations, peer pressure, and
dogmas of higher occupational prospects, there are still few who assume it to
be a guaranteed career clearance. And least, there are a handful of students who
are seriously occupied with their special interests that are further decorated by
higher scores.
Personally,
I appreciate my students joining into a science stream but I never indoctrinate
them to undertake it. Rather, I buoy up them on the grounds of what they are
good at. I know, I am neither a qualified academic guru nor a competent
scholar, yet I have always maintained my record of giving academic guidance and
direction of my own calibre. After all, teaching is all about educating on
values, ideas and principles to live our lives and not just feeding cookbook textbooks
information in the schools.
Whenever students probe me about the career prospects and selecting streams, I always narrate a story about a Shakespeare who experienced a virtual death
after marrying with Biology.
There
was a friend of mine who was gifted with a powerful command over English and
possessed extraordinary literary prowess. We named him Shakespeare because like the Bard of Avon who was a giant literary don, writing essays and poems were just on the fingertips of my friend. To him, we would just need to describe a girl whom we loved (or
infatuated with, precisely) and a minute later, those beads of infatuation
will be knotted to a rosary of spectacular poetry. His linguistic capacity was
beyond compare that, in any examinations, his marks would never fall below 80 in English, which was a Sisyphean task for many of us.
Therefore,
our teachers were not mistaken to have expected and encouraged him to take up Arts
stream where, English, in particular, functioned as a lubricant to an easy score of
marks in other related subjects. We were not wrong either to stimulate his
interest in leaving other streams because he professed (to me personally) his
infinite interest in ruling the world of Arts stream. But things had a sudden
U-turn.
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The
following year he took science with majors in Biology and I was still his best desk-mate.
I observed his stainless razor of linguistic talent corroding since science
subjects naturally demanded a lion’s share of time in terms of practice and analytical thinking. But this doesn’t mean that
he failed miserably. In fact, he was equally good in science as well. He was
still a dominating figure of Language disciplines that even our arch academic
rivals in the Arts stream would scream on his marks with exhilaration. But the
thing was that the bar of the score which he would leap over with such a relative
easiness before was never a luxurious attempt this time. And even more dreadful
was the result of grade 12 that made him mad for neither excelling in science
nor conquering any language-related occupations. He virtually committed academic suicide after marrying Biology.
This
story of my friend projected here is by no means, affiliated with any sort of humiliation,
disgrace or degradation. But on a profound note, it has always guided me to
shape and design many of our young fragile lives that I get to interact with each
day in school. It is through the examples, opportunities and experiences
that we become responsible for making our lives even better. It is not the responsibility of the teachers alone in guiding our students to the right track. Every matured and experienced person should shoulder equal dividends in educating our youth. Getting into science is not only the way to serve the nation. Neither is a guaranteed stream for career opportunities.
“We learn by example and by direct experience because there are
limits to the adequacy of verbal instructions”- Malcolm Gladwell
its very true..and i pray all students to think and think before they choose...
ReplyDeleteThat was an excellent example Dumcho Sir regarding our passions and pressures in choices. I always encourage my friends and juniors to follow their passions first and be involved in what one is good at for one must not risk of losing it. And vis-a-vis the choices of stream after grade X is all-important for one has to shape it. Hoping all is going well with sound in heath. Regards from me. Do great Take Care. :)
ReplyDeleteDumcho sir, that story can be related to one of my friends who also opted science though his marks in economics was the highest among us. But at last after BHSCE, he couldn't climb those bars with his thick science textbook contents. Though I qualified for science with praiseworthy margins, I didn't go for it just because I thought science subjects were not made for me. I opted commerce for which many of my friends took it as my way of outsourcing pride. In 12th I did much better and I am sure my friend would have done much much better.
ReplyDeleteSuch a hard decision. Such an important decision. Going with your strengths/interests makes a heap of sense to me now, but I am not sure that it did when I was younger.
ReplyDeleteBeyond everything individuals interest and enthusiasm must not be deterred at any cost.
ReplyDeleteLesson needs to be learned~
ReplyDeleteSo true, Dumcho...I would always advise students to think really hard before making a final decision...although when I was that age, I doubt I would have accepted the advice of the more mature me! ;)
ReplyDeleteThis is a must read for all parents, students and educators. In our Bhutanese society people more than often look down on the arts stream. If you say you are a student of science, they be like "wow! you must be intelligent" and if you say you are an arts student, they go like, "you should have opted for science". To them science stream somehow has a superior position. This notion ruins a lot interests, career options and eventually the lives of many.
ReplyDeleteThis is a very insightful article. Much appreciated la sir.
Great story and advice. The greater the decisions really, the harder it is to decide. We need to weigh the pros and cons.
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